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How Coaching Helped Me Build Confidence (and Stop Burning Out in Silence)
My leadership team sent me to coaching because I was ‘impatient.’ I called it efficiency. The coach called it burnout. Let me take you...
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May 293 min read


How to Build Boundaries Without Burning Bridges at Work
Setting boundaries at work is one of those things that sounds simple in theory but can feel incredibly tricky (subtext: impossible) in...
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May 223 min read


How I Quieten My Inner Critic
Didi looks a lot like me 🤔 I used to think my inner critic was the voice of reason. Turns out, she’s just a drama queen with a good...
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May 152 min read


Growth Through Service: Why Helping Others Rise Fuels My Journey to the Boardroom
Coaching others taught me a lot - mostly that personal growth doesn’t care about your five-year plan. Over the years, mentoring future...
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May 82 min read


Everything You Want is on the Other Side of Fear and Discomfort
Great Girls 2025 Pod Mentor Breakfast I've been leaning into the discomfort a lot more recently (well, more like leaping in and praying,...
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May 22 min read


How Do You Reconnect When You're Feeling Lost At Work?
Have you ever found yourself sitting at your desk, staring at your to-do list, and wondering, “Why am I really doing this?” Maybe the...
shelley
Apr 253 min read


Who Is In Your Trusted Circle?
Even coaches need coaches. For me, some of the most powerful growth happens when someone else helps me see what I can’t see myself. The...
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Apr 172 min read


Nobody Cares. What's Holding You Back?
Throwback to an interview I did during my crazy days Nobody cares. That was Sahil Bloom's message at a MindValley summit last weekend...
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Apr 42 min read


Is Fear Holding You Back?
The best way to deal with fear is to face it head on. I'm kind of afraid of posting this, but that's minor if it helps someone else who...
shelley
Mar 283 min read


Are You Burning Out Even Without Doing Long Hours?
Some high-achievers thrive working long hours, while others burn out even with a balanced schedule. See, it’s not just about how much you...
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Mar 202 min read


Are You Holding On To Things That No Longer Serve You?
Sometimes we get stuck because we're waiting for something to change after we've spent so much time and/or energy on it. Sunk cost bias...
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Mar 142 min read


Are You Willing To Do The Work to Make Real Change?
I did my first talk to a few hundred people this week (well, the first one since all the big changes). It focused on where I was a few...
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Mar 72 min read


Do You Have The Right Support to Make Progress?
There's a lot to be said for getting the right support when progress isn't happening. Twice a week I spend 45 minutes cursing through...
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Feb 282 min read


Brain rot. How Are You Navigating Social Media?
Brain rot. That’s Oxford’s word of the year for 2024. I would argue that it’s two words; but I digress. I would also love to say I'm...
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Feb 142 min read


Are You Learning and Teaching Enough?
Learning is a big part of getting unstuck. It’s only when I consciously made time to learn things for me and not for my job that I...
shelley
Jan 172 min read


Is Fear of Change Holding You Back?
It's not meant to be easy. Worthwhile things rarely are. We’d all be stuck in the Stone Age if our ancestors took the easy route and...
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Jan 102 min read


2025 is Going to be Epic. Get Some Rest!
It's that time of year. Brains are shutting down and the focus is shifting. After today, I think most South Africans will be on leave....
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Dec 20, 20241 min read


How Do You Navigate Silly Season?
I've spent most of my life loving Christmas time...except when I didn't...or felt like I couldn't. In crazy-busy years, I've left cape...
shelley
Dec 13, 20242 min read


Do You Know What Good Boundaries Look Like?
Many of us think we have good boundaries…until we see what good actually looks like. Things then look quite different when the lens...
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Dec 6, 20242 min read


Do You Know the Signs of Burnout?
It's hard to admit when we're burning out. It's even harder to deal with the consequences of it later on if we delay doing something...
shelley
Nov 29, 20242 min read
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